sorry

sorryadjective

American /ˈsɑr.i/ British /ˈsɒr.i/ also (American) /ˈsɔr.i/ also common
comparative sorrier superlative sorriest

Sorry describes someone who wishes something bad had not happened, whether they caused it or only saw it; a sorry thing is one in a bad state.

  1. regretfeeling regret because you have done something wrong or caused a problem, and wishing that you had not

    predicative only [pred]

    Collocations

    adjective + preposition sorry for doing something, sorry about something
    adverb + adjective so sorry, really sorry, very sorry, terribly sorry
    phrase say sorry, sorry that, sorry to bother you, sorry to keep you waiting

    Synonyms bad

    Compare apologize (the verb: apologize for something)

  2. sympathyfeeling sad for someone because something bad has happened to them

    predicative only [pred]

    Collocations

    phrase feel sorry for someone, sorry to hear about something, sorry to see someone go, sorry for your loss, feel sorry for yourself
    adjective + preposition sorry about something, sorry for someone
  3. in a bad statein a very bad or sad condition, so that people feel pity or lose respect

    attributive only [attrib]

    Collocations

    adjective + noun a sorry state, a sorry sight, a sorry tale, a sorry excuse for something

    Synonyms pathetic (pathetic is harsher and much more common than sorry in this sense)

Word family

Usage

Sorry is used far more often than its meaning suggests: for passing close to someone, for not hearing, for a small delay. On its own it is often enough for small things; a serious fault usually needs more than sorry alone. After bad news, I'm sorry means I feel for you, not I did it. Before but or a refusal, sorry softens what follows: I'm sorry, but I can't agree. Sorry on its own, including Sorry? to ask someone to repeat something, has its own entry.

Common mistakes

I sorry. I'm sorry.
Sorry is an adjective and needs be.
Sorry for disturb you. Sorry to disturb you.
Sorry is followed by to plus a verb, or by for plus an -ing form: sorry for disturbing you.

For translators

Meaning across languages Many languages use different words for apology and for sympathy; English uses sorry for both, and I'm sorry after bad news is sympathy, not an admission of fault. The attributive sense (a sorry state) is usually a different word.
Grammar trap Sorry needs be and is followed by about plus a noun, for plus a person or an -ing form, to plus a verb, or a that-clause, which usually drops that: sorry about the noise, sorry for shouting, sorry to hear that, sorry I'm late.
Cultural background English speakers, and British speakers especially, say sorry very often, for small things such as passing close to someone. It is a social habit, not a sign of guilt, and a reply is often not expected.
Pronunciation trap In American English the vowel is the open a of father or the aw of saw; in British English it is the short o of hot. The r is pronounced in both varieties, because it comes before a vowel inside the word, not at the end of it.