please

pleaseinterjection

American /pliz/ British /pliːz/

Please makes a request polite, accepts an offer, or asks for something with strong feeling.

  1. polite requestused to make a request, an order, or a question more polite

    Please goes at the start of a request or at the end, after a comma: Please wait here. Wait here, please. In a question it usually comes at the end: Could you wait, please? In the middle, could you please wait, it can sound firmer. Please on its own, with a rising tone, repeats a request: Please?

    Collocations

    phrase please don't, please note
  2. accepting an offerused to accept an offer politely, usually after yes

    Yes, please accepts; no, thank you refuses. A plain yes or no can sound abrupt when someone offers you something.

    Collocations

    phrase yes, please, please do

    Compare thank you (no, thank you refuses an offer)

  3. beggingused with strong feeling to push a request much harder, often when nothing else has worked

    Here please is stressed and often repeated. It can also stand alone to ask someone to stop: Please! Not now.

    1. aused to show that you do not believe or do not accept what someone has said

      Usually oh, please, or please on its own with a falling tone.

      informaldismissive

Word family

  • please
  • pleased
  • pleasant
  • pleasure

Usage

Please with an order can sound sharp between adults (Please stop that) unless the tone is warm, so with strangers a question is safer. Please is also the normal word on signs and forms: Please do not touch. Please keep off the grass.

Common mistakes

"Thank you." "Please." "Thank you." "You're welcome."
Please on its own is not a reply to thanks.
Please, your coffee. Here is your coffee.
Please is not used when handing something to someone; say here you are or here is your coffee.

For translators

Grammar trap Please goes first or last in a request; in the middle it can sound firm. It is used with an order, a question, or a noun alone (two coffees, please). It does not answer thanks and is not used when handing something over.
Cultural background English speakers use please and thank you often, even with family and for small things, more than speakers of some other languages expect. Leaving please out of a request to a stranger, a waiter, or a shop worker can sound rude.
False friends In several languages one word covers please, you're welcome, and here you are. English please is only for asking or accepting. Answer thanks with you're welcome; hand something over with here you are.
Pronunciation trap One syllable, ending in a z sound, not an s sound; British speakers draw the vowel out longer than American speakers do.